Comments on: In a Relationship Sex is the Key

By: Tony Smites

Tony Smites — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 14:44:53 +0000

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By: brook

brook — Fri, 08 Aug 2008 13:19:11 +0000

You must have one of the three important things in order to have healthy marriage. If you have more than one you are very lucky. These three things are;1)l ove 2) money 3) fame ( especially ladies like it very much). If you have the three factors together you are blessed.

By: another one

another one — Sun, 16 Mar 2008 15:44:36 +0000

sex is just the icing

By: Totem

Totem — Fri, 04 Jan 2008 15:31:24 +0000

The point that the good doctor makes is actually very manipulative Dr. Tseday Aberra is saying women should use their sexuality or sexual organ the IT to their advantage.She doesnt mention love or pleasure which are two good enough reasons for a married couple to have sex

Sex for women equals power to her, can a wife just want to have sex with the husband she loves for the pleasure of it?. She says women come into a marriage for compnaionship and not sex. Some women go into marriage expecting a good sex life to be part of it.

And for a doctor it is strange that she advocates women using their bodies whether they like it or not if they dont for whatever reason justified or not, then she doesnt explore what made the wife refuse to have sex with her husband but makes it a foregone conclusion that the marriage will fail.

A marriage might fail without sexual participation by both partners, by the same token it will also fail if one of the partners feels the only thing holding her marrigae together is her and he willingness to have sex come rain or shine I agree with anonymous, this kind of advice is harmful to women, than God some of us know better. She also does not mention the cases where there was no shortage of sex in a marriage but were no other ties to tie the marriage together outseide of the bedroom.

By: Krish

Krish — Mon, 03 Sep 2007 11:57:31 +0000

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By: Krish

Krish — Mon, 03 Sep 2007 11:55:55 +0000

Offcourse better sex is key relation for happy married life.

By: Happy Couples: What’s Their Secret? at Tadias Magazine

Happy Couples: What’s Their Secret? at Tadias Magazine — Thu, 23 Aug 2007 02:38:48 +0000

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By: franchise

franchise — Tue, 21 Aug 2007 18:35:25 +0000

Sex can some time be the key, but if you are putting it down,
right sex is not the key for a successful relationship. It
is best to talk out your prolems. After you and your mate get done having sex, the
prolem will still be there, maybe even worse

By: fikir

fikir — Fri, 17 Aug 2007 06:28:05 +0000

I am sorry Doctor. I just couldn’t understand why sex is the key.
I hope to be married one day but I hope sex is not the key.
I feel disappointed that I will never find someone who wants to connect through other means besides sex. Maybe I will stay single forever if sex is the key. Thanks.

By: anonymous

anonymous — Sat, 21 Jul 2007 11:15:19 +0000

I agree with “anonymous” completely.
Thank you for your bold candor on the subject of sexuality and submission. If a wife’s desire does not match her husband’s, she should have the right to be honored. Just as you are asking her to honor his sexual appetite, he needs to honor hers. Marriage is an exchange of people being supportive of each other, not just of a wife being supportive of her husband. The balance is what makes a wonderful marriage. I have been married to the same man for 45 years, and we listen and respond to each other, sexually and in all things. My needs and desires, or lack of them, are always as important as his. This works.
Thank you “anonymous” for your bluntness.

By: mr.x

mr.x — Thu, 12 Jul 2007 22:23:20 +0000

what an explanation…The writer did this with all her attitude.
And tried to portrait women like angels(..but unfortunately without
wings).All she said was women are just affection..and men..sex.
But what she forgot is women are also just flesh like men,and hot blood
loaded with hormones is runnig through their veins.
And there are only three reasons why either of them fail to get interested

1.There is big problem between their affairs and they need to fix that
2.Either of them have medical problem and need to see a doc.
3.Extramarrital affair.

By: anonymous

anonymous — Sat, 07 Jul 2007 07:52:22 +0000

I think this is complete rubbish. Women have urges just as men do and everyone has the ability to control these urges. This kind of “advice” to women is harmful, in my opinion. Did you ever think that maybe there would be a reason for why a wife would not want to sleep with her husband? Obviously there’s a bigger issue between them that needs to be addressed. Using sex for power is totally wrong. Marriage is a spiritual union that goes way beyond sexual availability.

By: Engnieer/Dr.Dagn. A

Engnieer/Dr.Dagn. A — Wed, 27 Jun 2007 01:04:54 +0000

Sexual Healing to all Ethiopians
“3” secrets of better sex

These better sex secrets don’t require special techniques or mail-order potions – most of them are simple things you can try at home.
1. Take care of yourself
Keeping your body in top-notch condition can help you enjoy a better sex life. Here are some easy steps to help you get there:
-Exercise, It improves stamina and helps with blood circulation (needed for a healthy erection). And you’ll look fitter and more toned too!
-Eat a healthy diet, Healthy foods will help you maintain your weight, and also give you the fuel you need for all of your daily activities, including sex.
-Quit smoking, This will improve your health (and give you fresher breath).
-Get help with health problems, If you have sexual health problems such as low desire, erectile dysfunction, or premature ejaculation, see your doctor. These conditions can be treated. Finding and treating other health problems, such as sexually transmitted infections (also known as sexually transmitted diseases), and problems with the nervous system or blood vessels, can also help improve your sex life.
-Take your medications as directed.
2. Communicate with your partner
Communication is the key to great sex:
-Talk, Even though talking about sex may feel awkward at first, it’s worth it.
-Be honest, If you don’t like something your partner is doing, or if you’re uncomfortable with what’s going on, let your partner know.
-Focus on the positive, If your partner does something you like, tell them.
-If you’re feeling shy, use non-verbal clues. By moving and making noises, you can let your partner know how you feel without having to say a word.
-Let your partner know what you enjoy in bed, and find out what they like.
-Don’t hide STDs. If you have a sexually transmitted infection (also known as a sexually transmitted disease [STD]), tell your partners so they can protect themselves.
-Don’t hide sexual problems. If you’re struggling with a sexual problem such as low desire, erectile dysfunction, or premature ejaculation, talk to your partner about it. This will help them understand it’s not their fault, and help them help you.
Good communication can help take your sex life, and your relationship, to new heights. Try it tonight!
3. Shake it up, baby
Sex is supposed to be fun! Strangely enough, it’s easy to forget that. Put the fun back into your sex life with a little experimentation:
-Trade fantasies. Find out what your partner would like to try in bed, and share your own desires.
-Add to the wardrobe. Buy your partner some new lingerie or other sexy bedroom clothes.
-Vary the scenery. Try having sex in a new, unusual place.
·Pencil it in. Too busy for sex? Put it in your schedule. Make a date for sex, or plan a sexy getaway. Sex doesn’t have to be spontaneous to be good.
-Daydream. Take a few moments throughout the day to think about sex – it keeps the engines stoked.
-I’m really proud to see like Dr. Tseday Aberra and other to teach on this subject matters…….
I’m hoping that you’ll learn something. It’s clips from my research at Rush medical hospital. On Health channels reports advice article-56 that was published in 2003@ UIC.
Thank you!.
Dr.Dagn A.

By: Heyab Muluneh

Heyab Muluneh — Sat, 07 Apr 2007 03:15:48 +0000

Hi Tadias this is Heyab Muluneh “( Aida Muluneh’s Youngest Sister )” I jus wanted to
quickly compliment you on the fact that you guyz recognized Dinaw Mengestu – a really good
writer I must say. I jus finished reading ” The Beautiful things That Heaven
Bears”. It is a well written book and i have an upcoming reading journal entry
that i have to do and you might be wondering “reading journal??” But I am a grade 8
student and i am doing it on that specific book. Anyways I jus wanted to say my
mother always checks your website, and she asked me to go on your website so i can see Aida on
it (the Untold story of Ethiopians in Cuba) and i realized you guyz also did an interview with Dinaw Mengestu as well.

Thank you!

By: Venus

Venus — Fri, 06 Apr 2007 05:47:26 +0000

What Dr. Tseday Aberra states is completely true! I personally have suffered the consequences. It has been two years and I still cry and wish I can do something that will bring him back.